Hundreds of couples living near you will divorce this year. Parting Properly will pay you $200.00 or more per hour to provide emotional mentoring for couples who rely on Parting Properly to get them through their divorce safely.
Years of research have shown that Parting Properly’s step by step process, combined with the expertise of a trained mental health professional who provides emotional support, invariably leads to a beneficial outcome for husbands and wives and children, and saves them from a doomsday divorce.
Parting Properly takes care of the logistics and legalities. Mental health professionals, like you, shepherd couples through a constructive, rather than a destructive experience, so they can focus on the future. The results have been wonderful.
Parting Properly will provide the training and support you will need in order to succeed as a divorce mentor. You can Click below to receive a training application: https://partingproperlymentors.com/mentor-application/
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Each couple can have a good divorce or a bad divorce. Their fate is dependent on the counsel and support they receive during the divorce process.
The chances of a good divorce can be dramatically improved if the divorcing individuals can be educated early, given support to deal with their emotions, and taught how best to control their own behavior. You are ideally suited to do that.
Divorce mentoring is explicitly recognized, welcomed, and legalized as a valuable service.
Everybody has been taught how to create relationships. But almost nobody has been taught how to end relationships. When the “D” word comes up, most people are totally uninformed. They need a mentor to guide and support them emotionally. That is where a trained Mental Health Professional (MHP) comes in.
It is easy to integrate mentoring into your current schedule. During a one-hour face to face meeting a Parting Properly representative will introduce you to the couple. Virtually all interactions after that will be by telephone, text, or email. Many will be fifteen minutes or less and can be arranged at your convenience.
The reason you can mentor so successfully by communicating in this way is that Parting Properly will have established a relationship of trust. Couples come to Parting Properly because we offer a non-litigious, non-adversarial, less contentious, less expensive, quicker, more empowering way to end their relationships.
Clients appreciate the efficiency of being able to bring you their concerns without the impediment of structured times and dates. When they leave messages, you have the freedom to schedule when you will respond.
Your job will be to mentor two people, desperate for emotional support as they separate their households and plan for the future of themselves and their children. Your involvement in their lives will rescue them from the acrimonious, dysfunctional process based upon letting attorneys and judges make decisions for them.
They are more qualified to make decisions about their lives and the allocation of their assets than any attorney or judge. They have greater love and concern for their children than any child custody evaluator. You will save them from a future contaminated by unforgiveness and ingratitude and guide them to a future filled with hope and emotional well-being.
The Parting Properly step by step method of getting couples through divorce takes about twenty hours of mentoring for each couple, spread over the 6 month California waiting period after the divorce is filed, or less than 4 hours per month per couple.
You can mentor 5 couples by committing about 20 hours per month, and increase your income while interacting with each couple or with individual spouses at your convenience. At $200.00 or more per hour, 20 hours mentoring 5 couples each month could potentially add $4,000.00 or more to your monthly income.
Because divorce requires changes in living arrangements it requires decisions about housing, moving, employment, child rearing, and careers, among others that have a significant emotional component. Therapists, not attorneys, are better suited to guide practical decision making so that clients can decide wisely.
Attorneys are not trained to alleviate the fears, the uncertainty, the depression, the damage to self-esteem, the sense of helplessness, the inability to forgive and let go, and the hundreds of other emotions that lead to bad decisions and terrible divorces. That is why your skills are needed.
Parting Properly clients you will mentor will have already agreed not to litigate and to proceed with civility, honesty, and fairness, with an eye to reaching a mutually beneficial result, prioritizing the welfare of their children.
Parting Properly takes care of documents, filings, and other logistics. There is never a requirement that you interact in any way with the court. Divorce mentoring is about helping couples make practical decisions about issues that relate to the process of restructuring the family by dealing with the emotional issues involved.
The mindset of couples that engage Parting Properly is never, “Help us fight.” It is always, “Show us how we can avoid fighting.” Often a client’s refrain is, “My life feels totally out of control.” A properly trained MHP can help restore a sense of control and give both clients the perspective needed to move forward confidently.
The training is exciting as you begin to understand and celebrate the vision of Parting Properly for the future of divorce. A trained MHP can help clients identify what they are feeling at each stage and help them predict the consequences of acting on those feelings.
Parting Properly training teaches you how to guide clients to avoid the emphasis placed by the legal process on fault finding and blaming. The training is enjoyable and will broaden your perspective. It applies to every area of service you are currently providing. The Parting Properly method of teaching correct principles in a divorce situation in order to save couples and children is broadly applicable to other situations faced by people in crisis.
MHPs, who understand the psychological dynamics of divorce, are sorely needed to accompany couples through the process. MHPs can lead couples to achieve a “good” divorce. Parting Properly training prepares them to do so. We hope you will join us.